# divvito.com > AI-optimized mirror of divvito.com containing 25 pages totalling 14,851 words of clean markdown content, structured data, and semantic HTML. Original source: https://divvito.com/. Last updated: 2026-06-15T06:14:23.878Z. Each page is available as HTML (with JSON-LD structured data) and Markdown (text-only, ideal for LLMs and RAG). ## Homepage - [Divvito helps separated parents communicate with ease](/content/site-root.html): Divvito helps parents be the best parents they can be after separation or divorce, Divvito helps parents be the best parents they can be after separation or divorce (830 words) ## Articles & Blog Posts - [When is time to start dating after you've separated?](/content/coparenting-tips/when-is-it-time-to-start-dating-after-youve-separated.html): Imagine my surprise when I received a boyfriend pillow in the mail. Is this a hint to start dating after a separation? Here are our top ten tips to dating after a separation or divorce., Imagine my surprise when I received a boyfriend pillow in the mail. Is this a hint to start dating after a separation? Here are our top ten tips to dating after a separation or divorce. (1,430 words) - [Top five co-parenting communication resolutions to start the year](/content/coparenting-tips/top-five-co-parenting-communication-resolutions/index.html): Co-parenting after divorce is always filled with challenges but don't despair! The one person who can change how you manage the emotional roller coaster called divorce is you. Take on one or all of these kickass co-parenting resolutions for 2018 and make this year a kickass year for you and, Co-parenting after divorce is always filled with challenges but don't despair! The one person who can change how you manage the emotional roller coaster called divorce is you. Take on one or all of these kickass co-parenting resolutions for 2018 and make this year a kickass year for you and your kids. (1,050 words) - [Successful shared parenting – starting right](/content/coparenting-tips/successful-shared-parenting-starting-right/index.html): After having conversations with parents about how to manage children between two households, you soon realise that many parents are overwhelmed with what has to be discussed and organized with their ex to ensure everybody stays sane. An Australian support service, Relationships Australia, h, After having conversations with parents about how to manage children between two households, you soon realise that many parents are overwhelmed with what has to be discussed and organized with their ex to ensure everybody stays sane. An Australian support service, Relationships Australia, has produced a great parenting plan document that walks you though all the areas needing resolution, and is relevant to any family in any country. Here is a quick overview ... (507 words) - [Divorce through the eyes of a child](/content/coparenting-tips/divorce-through-the-eyes-of-a-child/index.html): If you’re a parent dealing with a separation or divorce, we know how complicated life can be. Such an emotionally-charged, life-changing event has its personal challenges, but sometimes our emotional responses – anger, sadness and chilled indifference to our former half – have a greater impact on th, If you’re a parent dealing with a separation or divorce, we know how complicated life can be. Such an emotionally-charged, life-changing event has its personal challenges, but sometimes our emotional responses – anger, sadness and chilled indifference to our former half – have a greater impact on those we love. Our children.  (1,203 words) - [VENTING QUIZ](/content/coparenting-tips/is-your-venting-good-or-bad-take-the-quiz/index.html): We've all done it. Someone asks how your day was and it all spills out in an emotional torrent of frustration, fear or indignation. You come out of your venting bubble to see the other person looking at you in shock? Whilst I felt so much better, I'm not sure about them! So let's see if your venting, We've all done it. Someone asks how your day was and it all spills out in an emotional torrent of frustration, fear or indignation. You come out of your venting bubble to see the other person looking at you in shock? Whilst I felt so much better, I'm not sure about them! So let's see if your venting is good or bad. Take the quiz ... (1,090 words) - [The perks of being a single parent](/content/coparenting-tips/the-perks-of-being-a-single-parent/index.html): While there are hundreds of Facebook pages, Twitter feeds and blogs that re-enforce the woes of being a single parent, we thought it was high time to look at the positives. So every day I am going to add to this list to share 100 positive sides of being a single parent. I would love to hear, While there are hundreds of Facebook pages, Twitter feeds and blogs that re-enforce the woes of being a single parent, we thought it was high time to look at the positives. So every day I am going to add to this list to share 100 positive sides of being a single parent. I would love to hear your suggestions if you would like to share . Enjoy! (526 words) - [Society has a divorce complex fuelled by the media and it's hurting everybody](/content/coparenting-tips/society-has-a-divorce-complex-fuelled-by-the-media-and-its-hurting-everybody.html): It's clear that society has a divorce complex fuelled by the media and it's hurting everybody. The reason it took me so long the separate was that I feared being labelled a failure, a bad parent, and 'one of them'! Why did I think that? Why do a lot of people think that?, It's clear that society has a divorce complex fuelled by the media and it's hurting everybody. The reason it took me so long the separate was that I feared being labelled a failure, a bad parent, and 'one of them'! Why did I think that? Why do a lot of people think that? (539 words) - [How to agree on your children’s extra-curricular activities](/content/coparenting-tips/how-to-agree-on-your-childrens-extra-curricular-activities.html): You've just picked your kids up from school and your youngest enthusiastically demands they want to join the football team ... when only last week they wanted to join the chess club! "Ok honey, let's chat about this when we get home," is your immediate answer as what was once an easy decis, You've just picked your kids up from school and your youngest enthusiastically demands they want to join the football team ... when only last week they wanted to join the chess club! "Ok honey, let's chat about this when we get home," is your immediate answer as what was once an easy decision becomes slightly more complicated now that you're separated! Negotiating with your ex can sometimes be like negotiating a convoy of aid through a war-torn country, so here are three tips to reaching an agreement on extra-curricular activities with your ex. , Discover & share this Animated GIF with everyone you know. GIPHY is how you search, share, discover, and create GIFs. (536 words) - [Five things you can do to help your recently separated friend](/content/coparenting-tips/five-things-you-can-do-to-help-your-recently-separated-friend.html): So your friend calls one night and tells you they are leaving their partner, but it's all good. 'Holy s**t', you're thinking, 'what should I say, what should I do to help'?, So your friend calls one night and tells you they are leaving their partner, but it's all good. 'Holy s**t', you're thinking, 'what should I say, what should I do to help'? (568 words) - [Feeling guilty is natural but is it realistic?](/content/coparenting-tips/feeling-guilty-is-natural-but-is-it-realistic/index.html): Kids often spout off hurtful words like these when they have a problem they don’t know how to solve, whether they’re angry, stressed, or dealing with feelings about something bad that happened at school that day. , Kids often spout off hurtful words like these when they have a problem they don’t know how to solve, whether they’re angry, stressed, or dealing with feelings about something bad that happened at school that day.  (464 words) - [Communication with your ex not going well? Ask for a truce](/content/coparenting-tips/communication-with-your-ex-not-going-well-ask-for-a-truce.html): If co-parenting communication with your ex up to this point has been full of negative rants, blame, demands, anger, sarcasm or belittling (need I go on?), it’s sometimes very hard to move forward positively. The best thing you could do is ask for a communication truce. , If co-parenting communication with your ex up to this point has been full of negative rants, blame, demands, anger, sarcasm or belittling (need I go on?), it’s sometimes very hard to move forward positively. The best thing you could do is ask for a communication truce.  (500 words) - [Super moms and dads are definitely single](/content/coparenting-tips/super-moms-and-dads-are-definitely-single/index.html): Juggling becomes a refined craft when you become a single parent, so many of you would agree that super moms and dads are definitely single. Some days it feels like you're super Mario navigating a racetrack and just trying not to collide into anything. A typical weekday in a single parent household , Juggling becomes a refined craft when you become a single parent, so many of you would agree that super moms and dads are definitely single. Some days it feels like you're super Mario navigating a racetrack and just trying not to collide into anything. A typical weekday in a single parent household looks like this ... (537 words) - [5 tips to balancing the family budget](/content/coparenting-tips/5-tips-to-balancing-the-family-budget/index.html): You might not have had to balance the family budget before separation, but once you're down to a single income juggling child support and household bills, it is easy to fall behind. Below are some simple tips to get you back on track., You might not have had to balance the family budget before separation, but once you're down to a single income juggling child support and household bills, it is easy to fall behind. Below are some simple tips to get you back on track. (529 words) - [Girls need their dads - don't go for sole custody](/content/coparenting-tips/girls-need-their-dads-so-dont-go-for-sole-custody/index.html): I was having a conversation with a mom the other day who had just separated and wanted to go for 100% custody of her two girls. My first question was, 'Is he a bad father? Is he an alcoholic, drug-user, or violent? 'No', was her answer, 'he just won't bring them up as well as I would!' What could I , I was having a conversation with a mom the other day who had just separated and wanted to go for 100% custody of her two girls. My first question was, 'Is he a bad father? Is he an alcoholic, drug-user, or violent? 'No', was her answer, 'he just won't bring them up as well as I would!' What could I say? What should I say? 'Does he love them?' Her answer was, 'well yes of course ... (458 words) - [Quick guide to getting help leaving an abusive relationship](/content/coparenting-tips/quick-guide-to-getting-help-leaving-an-abusive-relationship.html): Sadly the statistics aren't great regarding domestic violence, and the reason many people stay in abusive relationships is because they don't know what to do. Here is Divvito's quick guide to getting help in an abusive relationship., Sadly the statistics aren't great regarding domestic violence, and the reason many people stay in abusive relationships is because they don't know what to do. Here is Divvito's quick guide to getting help in an abusive relationship. (252 words) - [Divvito, sounds like DeVito and Divito – the true meaning](/content/coparenting-tips/2018/7/divvito-sounds-like-devito-and-divito-the-true-meaning.html): Introducing Divvito, sounds like DeVito and Divito, but means so much more. Why was our name so important to us? That's like saying why was your baby's name so important? Firstly, our company will have it for the rest of it's life and secondly it's because we want it to mean something, to stand for , Introducing Divvito, sounds like DeVito and Divito, but means so much more. Why was our name so important to us? That's like saying why was your baby's name so important? Firstly, our company will have it for the rest of it's life and secondly it's because we want it to mean something, to stand for what values and virtues we hold so highly … (213 words) - [The final step to take before you separate or divorce](/content/coparenting-tips/the-final-step-to-take-before-you-separate-or-divorce.html): Why is marriage the most important contract we ever enter into but the least we actively work on to succeed? We spend more money on improving our skills for work and more time on keeping ourselves fit and healthy than we do in the relationship we are supposed to value the most. Here is the final ste, Why is marriage the most important contract we ever enter into but the least we actively work on to succeed? We spend more money on improving our skills for work and more time on keeping ourselves fit and healthy than we do in the relationship we are supposed to value the most. Here is the final step to take before you separate or divorce. (536 words) - [My husband and I are separating so do we still use the same Medicare Card?](/content/coparenting-tips/what-to-do-with-your-australian-medicare-account-after-you-separate.html): There are hundreds of items to action when you separate so we reached out to our pre-launch registered users to find out what questions they needed answers to. One was what to do with your Australian Medicare account after you separate? With no details online, we went directly to the Department o, There are hundreds of items to action when you separate so we reached out to our pre-launch registered users to find out what questions they needed answers to. One was what to do with your Australian Medicare account after you separate? With no details online, we went directly to the Department of Human Services to get the correct answers. (343 words) - [Post-separation emotional rollercoaster](/content/coparenting-tips/post-separation-emotional-rollercoaster/index.html): The post-separation emotional rollercoaster can be quite harrowing, and the emotional grief is said to be the same as after losing a loved one. There are five stages of grieving., The post-separation emotional rollercoaster can be quite harrowing, and the emotional grief is said to be the same as after losing a loved one. There are five stages of grieving. (485 words) - [Children don't forget the fights](/content/coparenting-tips/children-dont-forget-the-fights/index.html): We've all done it. Let our anger fly and throw a barrage of spiteful words at our partner in front of the kids. Even behind closed doors, we know they can hear everything, so why do we do it? ‘Children are like emotional Geiger counters,” says E. Mark Cummings, psychologist at Notre Dame U, We've all done it. Let our anger fly and throw a barrage of spiteful words at our partner in front of the kids. Even behind closed doors, we know they can hear everything, so why do we do it? ‘Children are like emotional Geiger counters,” says E. Mark Cummings, psychologist at Notre Dame University , who, along with colleagues, has published hundreds of papers over twenty years on the subject. (288 words) - [Appreciate what you have, not what you haven't](/content/coparenting-tips/appreciate-what-you-have-not-what-you-havent/index.html): It's very easy to get trapped in the 'glass half empty' cycle - especially when you've been through a major life-changer like separation and lose the ability to appreciate what you have. While it can be comforting to stay put at your own pity party with gin and tonic in hand, life's too short not to, It's very easy to get trapped in the 'glass half empty' cycle - especially when you've been through a major life-changer like separation and lose the ability to appreciate what you have. While it can be comforting to stay put at your own pity party with gin and tonic in hand, life's too short not to be happy, so here is the Happiness Institute's advice for being happy ...  (231 words) - [Getting organized after a divorce or separation](/content/coparenting-tips/getting-organized-after-a-divorce-or-separation/index.html): In any relationship, someone usually takes the role of organizing finances, social calendars, the grocery list and the children. So if you're faced with separation, a big struggle is getting organized if you weren't this person. Below are just a few things that usually get missed when separating: , In any relationship, someone usually takes the role of organizing finances, social calendars, the grocery list and the children. So if you're faced with separation, a big struggle is getting organized if you weren't this person. Below are just a few things that usually get missed when separating: 1. Take your name off bills:  If you are leaving the home, once you separate officially, you have to remove yourself from the bills, otherwise you are equally accountable if they are not paid...  (264 words) - [Co-parenting Tips — Divvito](/content/coparenting-tips/index.html): Co-parenting tips, Co-parenting tips (891 words) - [Co-parenting Tips](/content/sitemap-xml.html) (581 words) ## Resources - [Full Page Index](/index.html): Browse all cached pages with rich metadata - [About This Cache](/content/about.html): Methodology, technical details, and usage guidelines - [XML Sitemap](/sitemap.xml): Machine-readable sitemap for crawler discovery - [Robots.txt](/robots.txt): Crawler directives